Expressing love is an easier task for confident men and it might be a difficult move for an introvert. In modern times, people do not understand how to love women in general because every female has a different role in life.
How To Love A Woman
The female must be sister, mother, girlfriend, or partner. One must understand the role of the individual personallife and consider, how they want to be loved.
The treatment differs from individual to individual because everyone person in the world has a different personality. I will suggest several ways to love a girl and make sure that you understand the person first or else, it can turn out ugly.
1] Express Love
I watch shows, where magicians display mind-reading skills and I don’t think that your girl can do it. Psychicmind reading doesn’t exist and it is an illusion displayed by the magicians.
The theory applies to human beings in general and it clearly says that nobody can tell what you like and what you don’t. Even people who spent years together cannot understand the partner completely.
Never assume that she knows that you truly love her. A female heart is a mystery and nobody can foresee it. Express love by telling her that you love her, and it will create an awareness within mind and body.
Do not overuse it by repeating the same thing every single date because it should mean something.Keeping it special will always bring a smile, and it strengthens the bond between couples.
I recommend the old couples to come up with unique ways to create a moment. Social media is an incredible tool to find unique methods. One simple word should be enough but make it special once in a while.
2] Love Yourself
Men don’t feel confident when it comes to loving themselves and it could be several reasons. For instance, men are not confident about the appearance and they don’t feel worthy when it comes to how they appear in public. I’ve met several individuals, who don’t feel confident, and they ended up discouraged by public opinions.
Humans begin may have unique facial features, but you must feel confident & proud of the achievements because it will develop your overall attitude towards relationships. It is impossible to love someone without loving yourself and it will create the bridge of new perception.
For instance, I don’t feel good about my income then I would put 2X efforts in shaping my career. I would feel confident and proud of my achievements because it will put me on the map.
A human being cannot change the facial color magically, but you can always embrace who you are and proud of what you are. Always love yourself because it will reflect in the personality and puts you ahead of everyone.
3] Appreciate Good Qualities
I came across women, who are underappreciated in every aspect. People love a person for what they do and how they are or because of the wealth they bring on the table. Your girlfriend might be annoying or extremely talented person, but always make sure that she knows that you love her for herself.
They could be funny, smart, beautiful, and successful. No matter how they are, let them know that you care for them because of themselves.
Underappreciated people always feel unloved because it clearly sends the vibe of “nobody cares me” and efforts they are making on a daily basis. Recognize the efforts they are making every day and start appreciating them. By saying “the dinner is delicious” isn’t going to hurt your ego and be considerate.
Do not overdo things, such as mentioning it every single day because it will leave a constant approval vibe. You have to honest in certain things or human begins don’t improve.
By appreciating once in a while will encourage the person and it will shape up the relationship. The recognition always plays a crucial role in growth & bonding towards a person, and it applies to everyone. Appreciation increases attachment, encouragement, and do to more in life.
4] No Expectations
Experience is a strong tool for professionals and individuals. Never bring a powerful tool in a relationship. Human begins personality differs from person to person, and previous relationships may teach valuable lessons, but it can damage the present relationship. Relationships that have ended ugly always leave a scar on the individual, who never talks about it, but it keeps living deep inside.
In new relationships, the wound doesn’t show up because the opposite person wants to leave a positive impression. Love always confronts stress, which takes a toll on the couples, and it does have a negative impact that leads to breakups.
Do not expect the partner or spouse to cover those gaps that the ex-partner had it covered. Do not add extra pressure on the relationship with expectations. Live a comfortable life with the partner by sharing happy and unhappy moments.
5] Know Her Better
In every relationship, we come across people, who often say “I don’t understand my girlfriend” and it adds stress to the couple’s relationship. The actual word should be “I don’t understand my girlfriend” and it could be the true sentence.
Females are mysterious creatures that a man can never unfold and learn everything. Even couple sticking together for a decade do not know a lot of things about each other.
Never assume that you know everything about her because she is a complex individual. Understanding the opposite person is key to success and it creates a bridge of strong relationships.
Patience: Things get messy at the beginning of the crucial stage of the relationship. Two people do not possess same traits and I’m pointing at patience. I expect men to be patient in all phases of life because I never met a woman with patience. Do not lose composure, when things don’t go in your way and maintain your temper throughout the conversation.
Determination: One must feel strongly about the current relationship throughout the argument &conversations. You cannot break up over trivial reasons and it isn’t possible to get back together until unless one is willing to compromise. Determination always comes in handy, when getting to know someone and it will keep two people together.
Never have “EGO & Never Settle” attitude: When I think about my past, I had a lot of unnecessary attitudes, which have faded away due to maturity and experience. Young people possess the unnecessary attitudes to preserve self-respect and modern mindset.
In an argument or debate, they lose their cool and talk rubbish to preserve respect and unwillingness to bow down to the opposite person. In a relationship, one must bow down to another one, when you are wrong in the equation. Nobody wants to kneel down, but they want you to understand the importance of the mistakes made and resolve them.
Bottom Line
There is a universal saying “she is always right.” Do not argue or debate, when you feel like she isn’t going to give up because it will only worsen the situation. Accept the defeat and move on! Loving a person doesn’t mean that you accept her demands all-time. Love is a combination of Caring, Thoughtful, Sharing, Encouraging, and Appreciating.
Great article.